Julia Napelakapuokakaʻe Kapi‘olani was born on December 31, 1834 in Hilo, Hawaiʻi. Her father was high chief Kūhiō, and her mother Kinoiki was the daughter of King Kaumualiʻi of Kauaʻi (who negotiated peace with Kamehameha I to unify the islands in 1810.) (KCC)
“Kapiʻolani remained in Hilo the place of her birth until she was eight years of age. She was then sent to Kona, the home of some of the highest chiefs that have ruled people in these islands.”
“Kona was the home of Kapiʻolani (nui) wife of Naihe and a relative of the family …. Although Kapiʻolani (nui) was not living at the time, the young chiefess was given her name.” (Evening Bulletin, June 24, 1899)
On March 8, 1852, “At the age of 16 Kapiʻolani came to Honolulu and was taken under the protection of Kauikeaouli (King Kamehameha III.) Four years later, she married the High Chief Nāmākehā.” (Evening Bulletin, June 24, 1899)
Bennet Nāmākehā – a man thirty-five years her senior – was brother of Naʻea (Queen Emma’s father.) “Queen Kapiʻolani had been aunt to Queen Emma … and had nursed the young prince, the son of Alexander Liholiho (King Kamehameha IV,) although her rank not only equaled, but was superior to, that of Queen Emma, the child’s mother.” (Lili‘uokalani)
For his health the young couple voyaged for months on The Morning Star, an American Protestant missionary vessel, among the Gilbert Islands, but in vain, for Nāmākehā died on December 27, 1860, at Honolulu. He was buried at the Wylie Crypt at Mauna ‘Ala (Royal Mausoleum.) (Kravitz)
Later, efforts were underway to arrange a marriage between Alexander Liholiho’s sister, Victoria Kamāmalu, and David Kalākaua. (Kanahele) Kalākaua was, however, attracted to Kapiʻolani. On December 8, 1863, Kalākaua’s romance with Julia Kapiʻolani crystallized, and they were married in a quiet, secret ceremony by an Episcopal minister. (Kelley)
David Kalākaua was elected to replace the deceased King Lunalilo in 1874, making Kapiʻolani Queen to King Kalākaua. Kapiʻolani was a visible monarch. Queen Kapiʻolani reigned for nearly seventeen years. (KCC)
“It was in her home life that the Queen’s womanly qualities shone to the best advantage. Sweetness and amiability, with a soft gentleness of voice and manner to all who approached her, were her chief characteristics. She had a smile for everyone.”
“In the happy old palace days her favorite pastime was to sit under the shade of the great banyan tree, in the back of the palace yard, with her ladies in waiting, lounging lazily on the grass around her, and tease them about their sweethearts or worm a confession out of this or that timid one jealously guarding the secret of her heart.”
“She went very little into society and appeared in public usually only when her presence was necessary at state dinners, balls and other functions of royalty.” (Austin’s Hawaiian Weekly, July 1, 1899)
In April 1887, Queen Kapiʻolani and Princess Liliʻuokalani traveled to England to participate in the celebration of Queen Victoria’s Golden Jubilee. They first sailed to San Francisco, traveled by train across the North American continent, spent some time in Washington and New York; they then sailed to England.
Upon their return from Europe, Queen Kapiʻolani and her entourage stopped again in Washington, DC. At that time, they toured the National Museum, later to become the Smithsonian Museum of Natural History. As a result of that visit, Queen Kapiʻolani gifted the museum with a Hawaiian outrigger canoe to add to their collection. (OHA)
Kapiʻolani made headlines when President and Mrs Grover Cleveland hosted a formal state dinner at the White House in her honor.
She also visited schools, hospitals, and other public institutions in San Francisco, Washington DC, Boston, and New York. As the first queen to visit the United States, her activities received extensive coverage in various U.S. newspapers. (KCC)
“During the political difficulties associated with the overthrow of the monarchy, and final annexation of Hawaiʻi to the United States, she has, with dignity, …”
“… kept herself free from all complications, accepting with sorrow and resignation the loss of Hawaiian nationality. Her attitude was so lofty and dignified that it wins the sympathy even of her political enemies.” (Austin’s Hawaiian Weekly, July 1, 1899)
In 1891, King Kalākaua passed away at the age of fifty-four. Since the royal couple bore no children, the king’s sister Lili‘uokalani succeeded the throne. (KCC)
“Shortly after the death of King Kalākaua in San Francisco, January, 1891, the Queen went into retirement, making the Waikiki place her permanent home but travelling about among the Islands and particularly to her old home in Kailua, Kona, from time to time.”
“It was not long ago after the King’s death that Kapiʻolani began to fail in health and she never succeeded at any time since then in fully recovering it.”
“A short time (later) she made over all her property, a considerable amount, to her two nephews, the Princes David Kawānanakoa and Cupid Kalanianaʻole (Kūhiō) who are her sole heirs.”
“To these young men she was ever a loving and indulgent aunt. It was her money that paid for the education of the young men in America and England and it is to them now that she leaves all her earthly belongings.”
“Kapiʻolani was Christian woman whose good deeds were not confined to the bosom of her family but were extended to her friends and her people. Those who were closest to her say she had not a single enemy.”
“This is indeed an enviable record and the peace that was with her at death seems but a fitting end to such a life.” (Evening Bulletin, June 24, 1899) At sixty-four years of age, she died on June 24, 1899 at Pualeilani, her modest home in Waikiki. (KCC)
Kapiʻolani Park in Waikiki was named in honor of her. She visited Kalaupapa in 1884 to learn how she could assist those who were diagnosed with leprosy and exiled there, and she raised the funds to build the Kapiʻolani Home for Girls whose parents had leprosy.
Though childless, the Queen cherished the Hawaiian family and the role of mother. In 1890, she established the Kapiʻolani Maternity Home, which is today the Kapiʻolani Medical Center for Women and Children. (KCC)
Pattye Wright says
I so value your essays – especially the personal details ab out na mo’i. I have some Japanese students that I am training at the level of ‘olapa and ho’opa’a. I will have your essays translated into Japanese so that they may have a more intimate knowledge of our kings and queens. Mahalo pina! Kumu Hula Pattye Wright